BEWARE OF THESE TYPES OF RELATIONSHIPS

1. THE TIME WASTERS-I have often joked that the engagement ring that stays long in a lady’s hand turns to a hand-cuff. Most ladies blindly stay in relationship that is stand-still and heading nowhere. Why wasting over two year with a guy that is not willing to define the relationship, steer it to the direction of commitment and give you a timeline for the final destination at the altar? I have seen so many ladies who waited in hope that a guy will marry them but after many wasted years, the guys dump them and marry someone else. Know when to stay and when to move on.

2. THE MANIPULATOR: Guys should flee from ladies who manipulate their emotions in subtle ways that make them feel trapped in relationships. Manipulators always see the need to advance their own purposes and personal gain at virtually any cost to others. Some have been trapped men in a marriage with a pregnancy that was well timed and allowed by the lady. Some men also manipulate ladies by making relationships and marriages look as they are doing the ladies great favours by befriending them and marrying them. Manipulators are happy when you beg and cry. They see a strong need to attain feelings of power and superiority in relationships with others

3. THE INTERNATIONAL: I am not a big fan of international relationship with marriage on the agenda. Some people are over excited if someone overseas declares an intention for marriage. The joy of travelling or running out of Nigeria blinds them from through background check and adaptability in cross-cultural environment. Many guys overseas have married legally to obtain resident papers. They divorced their wives in order to marry a home girl. Meanwhile, some home girls are going there to stay a little while, then divorce the home boy to marry a foreigner.

4. THE SOCIAL MEDIA SWEETHEART- All that glitters in the social media is not true love but cyber flirt and infatuation. Some start their dating on Facebook, 2go, whatsApp and others and even propose or agree to the marriage proposal without seeing the person face to face and having no knowledge of the family background or health status. Only fine pictures appear on the social media. By the time some meet face to face, they start withdrawing bcos all was not seen at the first time.

MARRIAGE

THE SCHOOL CALLED MARRIAGE

Marriage is the only school where you get the CERTIFICATE before you start. It's also a school where you will NEVER GRADUATE.
 It’s a school WITHOUT A BREAK or a free period. It's a school where NO ONE IS ALLOWED TO DROP OUT. It's a school you will have to attend EVERY DAY OF YOUR LIFE.
 It's a school where there is NO SICK LEAVE OR HOLIDAYS. It's a school founded by GOD

1. The school is founded on the foundation of LOVE.
2. The walls are made out of TRUST.
3. The doors made out of ACCEPTANCE.
4. The windows made out of UNDERSTANDING
5. The furniture made out of TOLERANCE
6. The roof made out of FAITH.

Be reminded that you are just a student not the principal. God is the only PRINCIPAL.

Even in times of storms, don't be unwise and run outside. Keep in mind that, inside this school is THE SAFEST PLACE TO BE. Never go to sleep before completing your assignments for the day.
Never forget the C-word...COMMUNICATION. Communicate always with your mate and to the Principal.
If you find out something in your mate that you do not appreciate, Remember YOUR MATE IS ALSO JUST A STUDENT NOT A GRADUATE, God is not finished with him or her yet. So take it as a challenge and work on it together lovingly and with hope for a positive change. Do not forget to study the Holy Book (the main textbook of this school). Some tests and exams MAY BE TOUGH but remember the Principal knows how much you can bear and yet. It's a school better than any other. It's one of the best schools on earth; JOY, PEACE AND HAPPINESS accompany each lesson of the day. Different subjects are offered in this school, yet LOVE IS THE MAJOR SUBJECT. After all the years of theorizing about it, now you have a chance to practice it. You must ENJOY the school because it is your divine destiny.

Food For Thought BY Kelvin Abukoye

    its what you called yourself that what people will call you, if u agree with what people say about you thats what you will become, if u called a monkey dog thats wht the monkey will be" a dõg", its what you called a thing thats what the thing will Become, so if people say u are stupid and u agree then u are. God said to moses in the bible just open your mouth and speak, for he will confirm it,moses did so it happen.
    if u decide to call a kekenape a convertable thats what pple will call it, so use your tonque well and reject any negative thing anyone called you because  its when you agree to it then it stays

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TALENT HUNT

Are u a singer, can u bless and wow ur audience at d same time?
Kole Daru concepts n sought out presents a gospel music talent hunt. 1st prize 50,000 plus two tracks, 2nd prize N30,000 plus one track,3rd prize N20,000.
Audition:22nd- 23rd aug @ grace of God compound, phase 2 site 2, opposite dipperlife junction, Kubwa-abuja. For details call 08060955337, 08137430608.

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FooD for Thought

        you most be a follower before u become a leader, a follower with a GOod attitude thus Go far in life, despite what david pass through in life as a small boy before he became KING he project a Good attitude even at d point of death,

 Joseph shows a Good attitude to his master and it made him became KING in a strange land, GEJ was a Good follower, now he is a leader!

 The question is who are you following in your life ?


 Kelvin Eseimokumoh

Birthday

Happy birthday to me