! MONEY AND MARRIAGE

.Ladies, Consider His Heart And Not His Pocket

This subject has so caused me sleepless nights in recent time that I was forced to carry out a research on it (the research is still ongoing though). I have discovered that one of the reasons marriages hit the rock today is because many entered marriage for the wrong purpose and with the wrong partners. I have asked several ladies if they can marry a man without considering his financial status. To my surprise (well, not a surprise anyway), just one-tenth of them said yes. Many quickly replied, "God forbid, I don trek enough. No car, no marriage".

But, come to think of it, ladies, don't you think that in the process of wanting a wealthy man, you might end up with the wrong person who will give you everything and then steal away your happiness? Of course, it's good for a man to be financially fit before embarking on marriage trip. But, what if God says it's not yet time to drive the limousines? What if the Almighty says he would only be 'pocket-full' when he approaches 40? Ladies, tell me, isn't it better to drink Garri at the genesis of the marriage and then swim in wealth later on? Come on ladies, marry a man because you LOVE him and not for his money.

Money may vanish anytime. In fact, do you know that some poor couple enjoys marriage, live happily than the rich ones? Your happiness is what matters. Ladies, have a change of mentality today.
Marry a man who is ambitious, hardworking and caring; they are usually the good husbands, not those ones who will treat you like a slave; not those ones who will tell you "I bought you with my money, so you are one of my properties". They are usually the ones who move from one hotel to another with girls all around because they feel you are not satisfying them enough and they have the money to get the pleasure they desire.
'Ladyhood', wake up from your slumber. Don't be deceived by friends or even parents. Seek the man who will make you happy.